MEN - 5 Ways to Awaken the Goddess in a Woman

Dear men, this one is specially for you.

You could be that man who changes everything for your woman. Do you want to learn HOW?

Within the current trends of wellbeing, peak performance, spirituality, health, fitness, entrepreneurship, & self-development, there's a profound art that often goes overlooked – conscious sexuality & the art of truly - Awakening the Goddess - in a woman.

Women are naturally highly sensual creatures, full of eros and creative energy, with unlimited capacity for undulating & fullbody orgasmic pleasure. If she hasn't fully awakened this side of herself, it’s often because she hasn’t been met, touched, or opened fully, yet. This isn't just about enhancing your intimate relationships & getting more great sex, but about tapping into a deeper connection that will enrich every aspect of your life.

Here are five practical and transformative tips to becoming a master lover, that can awaken the Goddess in the woman you love.

1. SLOW DOWN: Embrace the Power of Patience

Slow down, .. and then slow down again, yep..even more. This is your challange! In our fast-paced world, slowing down can feel counterintuitive, especially in moments of intimacy. Who has the time?! Yet, slowing down is one of the most powerful ways to awaken the Goddess in a woman.

Men are like fire, quick to ignite, burn out, and die. And women are often more like water - that takes time to heat slowly. This is not just about physically slowing down in sex, but also about creating a safe space, of deep presence & patient connection, for her to open fully with you.

The Practice:

• Mindful Touch: Start with gentle, mindful, non-sexual touches. Feel every inch of her skin, savor the moment, and let your touch convey your presence and your admiration of her beauty.

• Breathing Together: Synchronize your breath with hers. This not only creates a profound sense of unity but also helps both of you relax, move into sensual expansion and connect on a deeper level.

• Extended Foreplay: Don’t rush through foreplay, like you are following steps 1, 2, 3 to fix a car. Let it be a journey, of SLOW exploration and discovery. The slower you go, the more you both can savor the build-up of sensual and sexual energy.

Benefits: Slowing down allows for deeper emotional and physical connection. It heightens sensitivity, leading to more profound and satisfying experiences for both partners. The slower you are, the more subtlties you feel, the greater the capcity for energetic expansion.

2. Cultivate your own Practice of Presence: The Ultimate Gift.

Your presence is the most precious gift you can offer. Being truly present means giving her your undivided attention and being fully engaged in the moment.

Cultivating a daily practice that refines your presence such as meditation, QiGong or yoga allows you to connect with and and feel your own being. The more present you can be with yourself, the more effective at life you will be, AND the greater the gift you can bestow upon a woman.

If you need more convincing - on a Tantra Training i was at several years ago, the women were asked what number 1. quality they found most valuable & attractive in a man. Nearly every . single . woman there answered: "presence!"

The Practice:

• Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness to stay present. Focus on the here and now, and let go of any distractions or worries. Try to spend phone free hours.

• Active Listening: Listen with the intention to understand, not just to respond. Show genuine interest in what she says.

• Quality Time: Spend quality time together doing activities that you both enjoy. Whether it’s a walk in nature or a cozy evening at home, being fully present makes these moments special.

Benefits: Your presence makes her feel valued and loved. It strengthens your connection and creates a space where she can feel safe to express her true self. Open her heart and you open her capacity for ecstasy!

This leads to number 3...

3. Get Comfortable with Feelings: Emotional Depth and Vulnerability

Many men find it challenging to express or even feel their emotions. Yet emotional intimacy is a cornerstone of deep, fulfilling relationships. Emotional energy is highly connected to our sexual energy, so if we repress & block our emotions we also repress and block deeper aspects and potentials of our sexuality.

The more you feel, the more you can feel her, and the more pleasure you can create. Getting comfortable with your own feelings and emotions, creates a safe space for a woman to feel and express hers, which is crucial. When she feels safe emotionally with you, she can also feel safe to fully open sensually & sexually with you. They are deeply connected.

I know this can be hard for men, especially with all the many generations of conditioning & shame that tell you it is a 'weakness'. However, I, and many other women, can confidently testify and say, that a man in touch with his inner Feminine ( his feeling nature ) is a far more powerful man - ( just think of the magnetic allure of all those musicians). 🤩

Somatic Sessions can help you to get in touch with your feelings, and to process shame and limiting conditioning.

The Practice:

• Open Communication: Encourage open and honest communication about feelings and desires. Listen actively without judgment.

• Emotional Check-ins: Regularly check in with each other about how you’re feeling. This builds trust and emotional intimacy.

• Vulnerability: Don’t be afraid to show your vulnerable side. Sharing your fears, dreams, and insecurities can deepen your connection and trust.

Benefits: Embracing emotional depth fosters a strong bond, creating a safe and supportive environment where both partners can thrive. The more safe a woman feels with you, the more trust she will feel in her body, to let go and fully open herself.

4. Intimacy as In-to-Me-See: The Power of Being Seen

Intimacy goes beyond physical closeness; it’s about truly seeing and being seen by your partner. This creates an intense soulful connection that can penetrate to the core of the Goddess that lives waiting within every woman.

The Practice:

• Eye Gazing: Spend a few minutes looking into each other’s eyes. This can be incredibly powerful in establishing a deep, non-verbal connection.

• Honest Conversations: Share your thoughts and feelings openly. Ask her about her dreams, fears, and what makes her feel alive.

• Presence: Be fully present in each moment you share. Put away distractions and focus entirely on her. Watch her blossom.

Benefits: This level of intimacy fosters a deep soulful emotional connection, making her feel valued and cherished.

5. Re-Sensetisation: Non-Sexual Touch

Non-sexual touch is a powerful way to build trust and connection. It shows that your interest in her goes beyond physical attraction and that you cherish her presence in your life.

Trust us, women are born with truth detectors embedded in their skin, we can feel the intention of every touch. Learn to turn those detectors into pleasure receptors

The Practice:

• Affectionate Gestures: Hold hands, hug, or place a gentle hand on her back. These small gestures can convey immense love and support.

• Massage: Offer & receive relaxing massage without any expectations. This helps her relax, melt open and feel cared for. It also allows re-senstisation of ALL your pleasure receptors. This is the way both men and woman can become multiple-orgasmic.

• Cuddling: Spend time cuddling without the pressure of it leading to sex. This can be incredibly nurturing and comforting.

Benefits: Non-sexual touch builds a foundation of trust and emotional security, deepening your bond, and re-sensetising your whole bodies and nervous system to incredible levels of pleasure.

Conclusion: Embrace the Adventure

The Awakening of the Goddess in a woman, is a journey & adventure of deep connection, emotional intimacy, and mutual growth. Many woman also do not know their true, full capacity for pleasure and expansion. She too needs to be doing her own work, but you can play a huge role in creating the safety she needs to fully blossom open.

By slowing down, cultivating your presence, getting comfortable with feelings, embracing true intimacy, and offering non-sexual touch you can create a relationship rich, alive & fulfilling with transformative adventures, endless exploration & unlimited pleasure.

Most women have more desire and passion than you might imagine, once their true capacity is awakened.

If you've never seen a woman thrashing around wildly, undulating with endless orgasmic waves, and screaming in ecstasy - not for seconds, but minutes and hours - you haven’t yet witnessed the true power of a fully awakened woman. This is likely the deepest yearning in all women. And you can be her hero, and learn this kind of sexual mastery.

I have personally experienced both the incredible gift of great lovers, and the dissapointing frustration of ones who didn't get it yet. Through these experiences, I have been able to distill the key elements needed to unleash the Goddess in a woman.

Sitting in womens circles around the world and hearing the pain, frustration and dissapointment of countless women, it is my wish that more and more men awaken to the power they are capable of. Together we rise.

Our sensual and sexual awakening is also our spiritual awakening.

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Embark on this path with an open heart and discover the profound joy and fulfillment that comes from truly connecting with the divine feminine energy.

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